So much of life is just diving in. Well, maybe not if you're hanging wallpaper. But you know what I mean. When I found myself newly divorced 14 years ago, I vowed that whenever a friend invited me for a visit - or to do just about anything, really - my reply would be, "Thank you so much, I would love to come!" (And to all of you who invited me, bless you, and we did have some fun!) READ MORE