She isn't the one in a mink coat or on magazine cover. She's the one who smiles and waves while pulling in the garbage cans, who listens intently, who shows up, who makes the most of what she has. She's Mary Tyler Moore tossing her hat in the air, a little uncertain, a little brave, and completely herself.
The girl next door is the gold standard, not because she shines the brightest, but because her light is real. She is warmth. She too sometimes has wobbly mornings, but she draws a breath, adjusts her shoulders, and steps forward anyway.
And Mary Tyler Moore remains, for many of us, the gold standard of the girl next door. (Before her, it was Antonia Shimerda, in this writer's opinion). READ MORE
Little Treasures 10/20/25
Good things come in small boxes. And sometimes with small price tags too. Today, we're looking at little treasures.
Are you familiar with the lover's eye?
It all began in the late 1700s, when King George IV (then the rakish Prince of Wales) went to the opera and that evening fell madly in love with Maria Fitzherbert. She was a Catholic, a widow and a commoner; he was heir to the throne. Marriage was thrice forbidden. While this deterred Mrs. Fitzherbert, George was relentless in his pursuit of passion, and in a gesture as secret as it was romantic, he sent her a tiny portrait of his own eye, painted in watercolor on ivory. READ MORE
Party Time 10/13/25
Welcome my loves, to the *Love Note* party, where together each Monday, we celebrate little drops of beauty ... in flowers, food, fashion and fun (and travel too). And today, it's party time!
We have another birthday to celebrate (which I actually missed, it was September 28th) ... drumroll please... the Love Note just turned 5! I can hardly believe it - and its all thanks to YOU. What if I had tried pilates with the same commitment five years ago? What if - what if - what if?! But the point is, I kept at it - this weekly writing thing, and YOU supported me, and it all took flight. See for yourself how far we've come, here - ouch ouch ouch that first note was downright pitiful, and I'm embarrassed to share it, but that's exactly my point. We've come a long way baby. Just for balance, here are a few of my favorite notes - here and here. READ MORE
Autumn in New York 10/6/25
I started out thinking today's note should be set to Ella Fitzgerald singing "Autumn in New York" ... and yet before I knew it, Nina Simone was crooning "Feeling Good" in my ear (so good!), fast forward forty minutes (which flew by) and I had created this playlist, neatly bookended by the two songbirds. In my mind's eye, I'm picturing it as a soundtrack for a Nancy Meyers movie with you as the protagonist ... camera pans as you stroll through Central Park (or along your favorite hometown walking route) ... the director calls for a zoom in as you pause to kick a few leaf piles, and a red maple drifts up toward the clouds. What is our lovely protagonist (YOU) thinking in that moment? What is she longing for? Where would her story lead, if she dared to write the next scene herself? READ MORE
Feathering The Nest 9/29/25
Autumn arrives with shorter days and brisker nights, and suddenly the comforts of home feel like treasures to be gathered close. Perhaps it's our response to the return of a regular (perhaps even bustling) routine - following on the heels of August's dreamy la la land of seemingly endless daylight and loosened schedules. Or maybe it's just our primordial call to bake. Whatever the reason, fall seems to call us back to our nests. Here are a few little indulgences to just sprinkle a little fall stardust into your world: READ MORE
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